Actually, there are more than ten things. I just wanted you to get your attention with the title, and then tell you that there is a human writing these words, someone who knows that there aren’t formulas or lists or recipes for this moment.
I don’t expect you to read these words all at once. That’s why the chapter titles are responses to questions people ask and feelings people have.
You can choose which ones you need right now. And come back for others later.